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《Don’t get motivated be disciplined》



Motivation is temporary, But discipline is permanent. We get motivated in thousand ways, but only one way to get through discipline. It would be best if you had the willpower to have both.


Great powers come with great responsibility, is a famous quote. Most of us think it was said by Spiderman’s uncle Ben. Actually, it was said by Winston Churchill in 1906, when he was a colonial officer. But the actual meaning of this quote is profound; we need to switch the nouns of this quote. Great responsibility comes with great powers. These are the words of the great author Mark Manson. Accepting responsibility is the first step to solving the problem. When you take your family’s responsibility, you have the power of support from the family to solve those problems.


Living with insecurities is like having a mind flayer controlling your mind. Don’t let anyone be your vecna (main antagonist in ST) to control your insecurities.


Building some Self-Esteem is one of the important steps to overcome insecurities. Keep good company to avoid negative thoughts. When you become the small or chunky person in the class, if anyone makes fun, you get offended easily by your insecurities. or Your best friend gets too attached to others, spending a lot of time with others, will lead you to insecurities. Confront your feelings rather than avoid them, or prepare for setbacks don’t let them control you. You are not important to those who think you are important. 


When you understand this, only then you will be formed in life.


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